Section 4: Important Qualities
Use the scale below to indicate how important each of the following characteristics would be to you in finding a partner for a relationship.
not at all important
somewhat important
very important
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1.
My partner's personal values
2.
My partner's energy level
3.
My partner's family background
4.
My partner's honesty
5.
Enjoying the way I feel around my partner
6.
My partner's dependability
7.
My partner's intelligence
8.
My partner's sex appeal
9.
My partner's love of children
10.
My partner's beliefs
11.
My partner's fun-loving nature
12.
My partner's physical appearance
13.
The chemistry between me and my partner
14.
The security/safety I feel when with my partner
15.
The similarities between me and my partner
16.
The romantic attraction I feel for my partner
17.
My partner's personality
18.
My partner's kindness
19.
Our sexual compatibility
20.
My partner's ability to communicate
21.
My partner's skill at resolving conflicts
22.
My partner's friendliness
23.
My partner's capacity for emotional intimacy
24.
The friendship between me and my partner
35% Complete
Try not to over-analyze! Your first impulse is usually the correct answer.