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Section 12: Family Relationships

Please use the scale below to tell us how well each of the following describes your relationship with your parents (or guardians) when you were growing up. If your parents were not both equally present, please focus on the parent with whom you felt the closest and most involved.

not at all

somewhat

very well

 

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3

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7

 

1.

Conflicted

 

2.

Supportive

 

3.

Abusive

 

4.

Tender

 

5.

Uninvolved

 

6.

Over Involved

 

 

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not at all

somewhat

very well

Using the same scale, how well do the following describe your relationship with your parents now? (If deceased describe your relationship when they were alive. Please focus on the parent with whom you feel the closest and most involved.)

not at all

somewhat

very well

 

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7

 

7.

Friendly

 

8.

Distant

 

9.

Angry

 

10.

Abusive

 

11.

Tender

 

12.

Supportive

 

13.

Conflicted

 

14.

Nurturing

 

15.

Regretful

 

16.

Tolerant

 

17.

Uninvolved

 

18.

Over Involved

 

 

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2

3

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7

 

not at all

somewhat

very well

19. Other than your parents, who has been the most influential in your life and why? (Please be brief. Note: This answer will be shared with your matches.)


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