Section 10: Relationship Style
When you think about what you want in a relationship, how important are the following items? Please use the scale below to select your answers.
not at all
somewhat
very much
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Being able to easily talk about personal problems with my partner
2.
Knowing as much as possible about my partner's past
3.
Being able to tell my partner everything about myself
4.
Being able to discuss with my partner how I am feeling towards him/her
5.
Having my partner be open with me about how he/she feels toward me
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Being available to my partner when he/she is having problems
7.
Being able to count on my partner for emotional support
8.
Enjoying physical closeness with my partner
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Being able to keep my space
10.
Being able to work out my problems on my own
11.
Being able to spend as much time as possible with my partner
12.
Doing special things to let my partner know how important he/she is to me
13.
Being able to make compromises
14.
Showing my partner that his/her needs are as important to me as my own
15.
Being kind to each other
16.
Being able to let my partner know when I am angry with him/her
17.
Knowing that my spouse is usually to blame when things go wrong
18.
Feeling that my spouse can do little wrong
19.
Having similar ideas on parenting
20.
Having similar educational backgrounds
21.
Having similar belief systems
22. What are the THREE things for which YOU are the MOST thankful? (Please limit each answer to 20 words or less. These answers will be shared with your matches.)
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b.
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